Hey there, friends! It’s your girl Tina, back at it again with another blog post. Today, I want to get a little introspective and talk about something that’s been on my mind a lot lately – what are the things I could be doing more of in my life?

Now, before I dive in, let me just say that I consider myself a pretty productive and proactive person. I mean, just take a look at my jam-packed calendar and to-do list. There’s hardly a free moment to be found! But as I’ve been reflecting on my life and goals, I’ve realized that maybe, just maybe, I could be doing a few things a little bit better.

So, without further ado, let me share with you the top five things I could definitely be doing more of:

1. Prioritizing Self-Care
   Okay, let’s start with the big one – self-care. Now, I know I’m not alone in this, but I have a real tendency to put everyone and everything else before my own needs. Whether it’s working late to finish a project, saying “yes” to every social invitation, or neglecting things like exercise and healthy eating, I’m the queen of putting myself on the back burner.

And you know what? It’s exhausting. I can feel the burnout creeping in, and it’s not a good look, let me tell you. That’s why I’m making a conscious effort to prioritize self-care a little more. Things like taking regular breaks, setting boundaries, and making sure I get enough sleep and downtime. Because let’s be real, how can I possibly show up as my best self for the people and things I care about if I’m running on empty?

2. Nurturing My Relationships
   Next up on the list – nurturing my relationships. Now, don’t get me wrong, I pride myself on being a pretty darn good friend, sister, and partner. But the truth is, I could probably do an even better job of making quality time for the important people in my life.

Between work, chores, and all the other obligations we have as adults, it’s so easy for those meaningful connections to take a backseat. But I’m determined to change that. Whether it’s scheduling regular date nights with my partner, planning more girls’ weekends with my besties, or making sure I check in with my family on a regular basis, I want to make sure I’m truly investing in the relationships that matter most to me.

Because at the end of the day, those are the people who lift me up, support me, and keep me grounded. And I want to make sure I’m reciprocating that love and care.

3. Embracing Spontaneity
   Okay, this one might surprise you, but hear me out – I could definitely do more of embracing spontaneity in my life. Now, I know what you’re thinking, “But Tina, you’re the queen of planning and organization! How could you possibly be more spontaneous?”

Well, my friends, that’s exactly the problem. I’ve become a little too regimented, a little too rigid in my ways. And while having a plan is great, I’ve realized that sometimes, the best moments in life happen when you just let go and see where the wind takes you.

So, I’m making a conscious effort to be more open to last-minute adventures, impromptu road trips, and just saying “yes” to opportunities that come my way, even if they don’t fit neatly into my calendar. Because you never know what kind of amazing experiences might be waiting for you just outside your comfort zone.

4. Practicing Mindfulness
   Next on the list – practicing mindfulness. Now, I know this one might sound a little cliché, but hear me out. In our fast-paced, constantly-connected world, it’s so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, constantly thinking about the next thing on our to-do list.

But you know what? That’s not a sustainable way to live. That’s why I’m making a concerted effort to be more present, to truly savor the moments, and to slow down and appreciate the little things. Whether it’s taking a few deep breaths before a meeting, going for a mindful walk during my lunch break, or just being fully engaged in a conversation with a loved one, I’m trying to be more mindful and intentional in my day-to-day life.

Because let’s be real, life is too short to be constantly rushing from one thing to the next. I want to make sure I’m truly savoring and enjoying the journey, not just crossing items off my list.

5. Stepping Outside My Comfort Zone
   And last but not least, stepping outside my comfort zone. Now, I know I mentioned this a little bit when we were talking about embracing spontaneity, but I think it’s worth highlighting as its own category.

You see, I’ve always been the type of person who likes to play it safe, to stick to the familiar and the known. And while there’s certainly nothing wrong with that, I’ve realized that some of my most rewarding and transformative experiences have come from pushing myself to try new things and venture into uncharted territory.

Whether it’s taking a solo trip to a new country, signing up for a challenging fitness class, or even just striking up a conversation with a stranger, stepping outside my comfort zone has a way of invigorating me and making me feel more alive. And let’s be real, who doesn’t love that exhilarating feeling of conquering a fear or trying something new?

So, that’s my list, friends – the top five things I could definitely be doing more of in my life. And you know what? I’m actually kind of excited about it. Because while change can be scary, I know that these are all areas that have the potential to enrich my life in so many wonderful ways.

Now, I’m curious – what about you? What are the things you could be doing more of in your own life? I’d love to hear your thoughts and maybe even swap some tips and strategies. After all, we’re all in this journey together, right?

Alright, I think that’s enough rambling for now. Time for me to go put some of these ideas into practice. Catch you later, friends!

Tina