Hey there, lovely readers! It’s Tina, and today I’m diving into a heartfelt topic that I think many of us can relate to. Have you ever thought about what you would say to your younger self if you had the chance? Middle school is such a formative time, filled with awkward moments, growing pains, and a whole lot of self-discovery. So, I decided to write a letter to my middle school self, sharing some wisdom, encouragement, and of course, a bit of humor. Grab a cup of tea, get comfy, and let’s take a nostalgic trip down memory lane.

Dear Middle School Tina,

Hey there, kiddo! It’s me—or rather, it’s you from the future. I know, it sounds a bit like something out of a sci-fi movie, but trust me, this is real. I’ve got a few things I want to share with you, so buckle up and get ready for some big sisterly advice.

First things first, let’s talk about those braces. I know they feel like they’re taking over your entire face, and you’re convinced that you’ll never smile in a photo again. But guess what? They’re only temporary, and your future self has a dazzling smile to prove it. So, hang in there and keep rocking those colorful rubber bands. They’re a rite of passage, and one day you’ll look back and laugh about it.

Speaking of laughter, let’s address the fact that middle school can be downright awkward. There will be moments when you feel like you’re the only one who doesn’t have it all figured out. Spoiler alert: no one has it all figured out. Everyone is just as confused and awkward as you are. Embrace the weirdness, because it’s those quirky moments that make you who you are. Trust me, the things that make you feel different now will be the things you love most about yourself later on.

Now, about those friends of yours. You’ve got a great group, and some of them will be by your side for years to come. But don’t be afraid to branch out and make new connections. People change, and so will you. It’s okay to outgrow friendships and form new ones. Just remember to be kind, because everyone is fighting their own battles, even if they don’t show it.

Oh, and that crush you have on the boy who sits two rows over in math class? It’s cute, and it’s all part of growing up. You’ll have plenty of crushes, and some will even turn into real relationships. But here’s the thing: don’t let anyone make you feel less than you are. You’re worthy of love and respect, and anyone who doesn’t see that isn’t worth your time. Confidence is attractive, so hold your head high and be yourself.

Let’s talk about school for a minute. I know it feels like the grades you get now will determine the rest of your life, but take a deep breath. Yes, school is important, and yes, you should try your best. But it’s not the end of the world if you don’t ace every test. Learn to ask for help when you need it and don’t be too hard on yourself. The lessons you learn outside the classroom are just as valuable as the ones inside.

Now, I need to tell you something about your hobbies. You love to write, and you’ve got a wild imagination. Don’t ever let that go. There will be times when you feel like your creative pursuits aren’t practical, but they’re a huge part of who you are. Keep a journal, write those stories, and don’t be afraid to share your work. Your words have power, and one day, they might just resonate with someone who needs to hear them.

I know you worry about the future a lot. What will you be when you grow up? Will you be successful? Will you be happy? Here’s the secret: there’s no single path to success, and happiness isn’t a destination—it’s a journey. You’ll have ups and downs, triumphs and failures, but every experience will shape you into the person you’re meant to be. Trust the process and don’t be afraid to take risks. Sometimes the best things in life come from stepping out of your comfort zone.

And speaking of comfort zones, let’s talk about self-care. Middle school is tough, and it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and forget to take care of yourself. Make time for the things that make you happy, whether it’s reading a good book, going for a walk, or just spending time with family and friends. Your mental and emotional well-being are just as important as your physical health, so don’t neglect them.

Lastly, I want to remind you to be kind to yourself. You’re going to make mistakes, and that’s okay. Learn from them and move on. Don’t dwell on the past or beat yourself up over things you can’t change. You’re growing and learning every day, and that’s something to be proud of. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and always remember that you are enough just as you are.

So, Middle School Tina, keep being your wonderful, quirky, and imaginative self. Embrace the journey, cherish the moments, and don’t forget to laugh along the way. The future is bright, and I can’t wait for you to see all the amazing things that lie ahead.

With all my love and a dash of humor,

Future Tina

There you have it, lovely readers—a letter to my middle school self filled with wisdom, encouragement, and a bit of humor. What would you say to your younger self if you had the chance? Do you have any advice or funny anecdotes to share? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Until next time, keep embracing the journey and remember that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.

Love,
Tina